It is not a lack of will. It is a solution. I have not intentionally hurt myself in over a year now, I did not magically grow a huge case of willpower, my situation in life has improved. Anyone who says self-injurers are weak has obviously never hit rock bottom. (by the way- psych is my major)Kaebora wrote:
I can safely say I do not date women with this disorder because it is a turn-off, and mostly because it says alot about how weak their will power appears to be. Or it could be saying they are emotionally unstable, depending on the situation. I say this out of experiance, so don't get mad at me over what I feel is right.
And you merely had to quote the one and only actual opinion in the entire post rather than comment on the facts. Why? I would much rather you give your own factual psychological perspective from your degree. (Different colleges sometimes teach different approches to the same subject matter.) It's much more constructive than you claiming that I am emotionally inept.
Anyone who has ever had a broken heart has hit rock bottom. It really hurts to have someone tell me that I "obviously" haven't been there, when they have no idea whatsoever. Up until this point I've been very considerate, and never have I attacked any one person in particular in this forum. I mentioned this subject because I worry about The Pack members that do cutting. I felt that I should at least say something, rather than ignore what I feel is a real problem. Should I just claim that I'm being sarcastic and say "sorry for caring"?