...IMHO...
No one
Really knows who they are. ...not completely...
We will all continue to learn new things about ourselves every year, every day, untill the day we die...mostly because we are constantly changing.
...are you sure you are still the same person you were a few years ago?
I know
I'm not.
I did not mean for anyone to take this so personally. I'm really sorry if my words have been perticularly hurtful to anyone.
(I've only been trying to help)
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This topic has been skewing far off it's original intentded course here.
Back to the original thought
I saw that, when I compared the ratio and range of opinions and
types of fans here in "The Pack" to what I susspect the target audience of "Freeborn" is going to be, it was apparent to me that
We weighed in quite heavily on the "Geeky" side of the equation.
I saw two problems with this.
#1- A disproportionate mix of opinions may not give the film crew as accurate an idea of what will earn the most praise and applause as was hoped.
(A film catered to only a select group of fans, though possibly the makings of a "Cult Classic", could turn cold at the box office if most normal, non-fanatics, just Don't Get It.)
#2-
-(In relation to The FILM project and "The Pack" both together and seperately)-
We have
allready been tagged as "Furries" by many less open-minded Film fans, Horror/Monster/Supernatural genre fans and Critics.
(In the steriotyped sense of the word...regardless of how innacurate that label may be to us)
We are bound to attract alot of
negative attention as a result of this...we have allready gotten a small taste of it.
The fact is that I feel that
some of us may not react very well to this once it happens. Overcharged reactions and unchecked emotions
(in reaction to being labeled and shamelessly insulted, or just frustratingly mis-interpereted) I
fear could start a chain of events that could lead to this communities own self destruction.
Now here is where I start pretending to be a psycologist.
Inadvisable emotional outbursts, (often represented in the form of angry messages towards ones tormentors, and ultimately resulting in
LOSE-LOSE flamewars), often begin with the emotional insecurities of the ones being picked on.
(You can't blame the tormentors...the words of an idiot have no power unless you give it to them by taking them seriously)
Being in
Denial is a BIG emotional insecutity. That is why I reccomended for everyone to look at themselves as if from the outside...as if they were looking at someone else rather than themselves.
Are we "Geeks"? ...Yes...
Do our ideas and opinions look very "silly" to many other people? ...Yes...
Are we "wrong", "stupid", or "pathetic" for liking what we like and being who we are?
...No...
If you are confident and secure about who you are and what you believe in, nothing that any of them can say can hurt you. ...so long as the
truth is in YOUR hands and not thiers.
...and the Truth is...we're
weird. ...we don't see everything in all the same ways as most others do... ...but we're weird
Together, and we like it like that.
If we try to deny that, they will have a weapon to use against us...to get us all riled up and jumping up and down like mad monkeys so they can sit back and laugh.
(Nothing is more satisfying to a jerk like that than seing us get mad...exept maybe seeing us cry...)
Let's not let that happen. Know who you are and why you are here,
("To Have FUN, of course!") and we will have nohting to fear from the idiots who will inevitably try to tear us down for their own amusement.
Also...it would not be healthy for us to get too "high and mighty" about our own collective opinions here. What THE PACK enevitably deems to be the "best" kind of werewolf, or the "best" kind of werewolf film should not be flaunted in the face of outsiders who don't like it.
Some people will enevitably "Hate" what we are doing to the werewolf mythos. There are those who will feel that our "humanizing" of the werewolf, making it into a emotionally fragile creature, or a mis-understood race instead of a soulless Monster...a primal force of nature and pure Evil...is
RUINING what the werewolf is all about, and what made it "Cool" to begin with.
(There are some allready here who might allready feel this way, actually).
Thus is ones right to feel this way, just as it is each of our own rights to want the werewolf to be something else.
...most will SAY we allready know that...but actions speak loudly, and sometimes we are a little too quick to shoot such opinions down and react... ...ummm...
...
...wait...where the hell am I going with this now?
...at some point I think I lost what I was trying to say and just started rambling off whatever poped out of my head.
Feel free to go
WTF?! and wonder what on earth I was trying to get at while I try to gather my thoughts again.
(...this is why I prefer message-boards to Chat-rooms... If I allow myself to post my thoughts as I think them before I get them organised, I tend to wander away from my point and end up making little sense. )
I think someone needs to put a leash on me or something, because I'm
WAY overstepping my boundaries here.
[spoiler]Oh...and half of my personal emoticons are not working anymore for some reason. Go figure.[/spoiler]