THE PACK Message Boards

I guess you noticed lately that I've been getting on every one's nerves. I feel that i'm upsetting every one left and right. I've been letting my temper and stubborness get in the way in my relationships on and off line. Last night I thought about what I have been doing, I'm pushing friends away, I lost all of the respect that people and the mods here had for me, and I hate that.

I've been starting or taking a part in some immature flame wars, and Geekboy1500 and PariahPoet I'm sorry for that, I was a REAL JERK! Also I'm sorry for DarkJokerWolf for neglecting to IM reguarly, and I'm sorry for any one else I hurt.

And if I flame war again I want Figarou to ban me... permanately. Because I don't deserve to be here and have friends like you, and do the things I have been doing all this time. I'll get my temper in check and just plain grow up once in my life.

And again I'm sorry

well you have yet to get on my nerves ...but when you do ....i respect ya anyways...

Anubis its ok you dont have to ask the admin or mods to ban you, your a cool guy. You may annoy me at times but hey Im use to it, I dont ever want to see you banned, you cant give up that easily. Just try to be more self aware of yourself thats all. Your still my friend you still have a good heart and thats all it counts.

I'm not asking for Fig to ban me today, i'm aking him to ban me if i start another stupid flame war again.

but thanks any way

Personally, I would simply suggest that if you get irritated, you look at what you're posting, and then take a step back, and then apologize if necessary.
We all have our own opinions, and it's good to express them. You just need to be able to respect that other people have their opinions, and try to restrict your comments to constructive criticism.
Personally, I have found that it's a matter of control. Learn it, and you have got it down.
...
And besides...You are too decent a 'wolf to be banned. I'd have to bug you until you get back.

Don't say that man, you're a big part of this forum, it just wouldn't be the pack without you

Anubis

It takes a strong head and a good heart to admit your own follies and apologise like this WILLINGLY. Good Show.

If more people did that, there would be a lot less unnecessary anger in the world.

...that's all I had to say.

I believe that ALL administrators know when to give someone "the boot".
And so far, your supposed rants and what not hasn't banned you from these forums at all.

Infact, These kinds of things are commonplace. Just about everyone who has joined a forum, be it this one or not has flamed and insulted someone else (intentional or otherwise). I think that it's what all people do. But if you do belive that you are placing yourself under a negative spotlight, consider for all of your later postings, revising your replys before posting. Try to think as an outsider. What would they think of your post? What would that post make the audience feel about you?

This forum has given me quality entertainment and socialization. I knew the forum admins were doing their job then as well as now. I remember that my first post on these boards were out of place. Quckly and gracefully the moderators moved it to the right place. (Maybee it was partially my falt that caused them to create a new place for welcomings) Anyways, in your "rants" you didn't seem like you were trying to give the forum a negative experience. Rest assured, I bet you the moderators have seen it the same way too.