I uhhh... need some help (relationships)
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I uhhh... need some help (relationships)
I ask you this becuase I need a group who doesn't know me personally, and the /b/tards weren't responding.
Ok heres my problem. So my friend Paige(who i kind of have a crush on ) was throwing this costume party for haloween. My friend Nick was supposed to go, but he got grounded.
I went and was havin fun, and somehow me and Paige and my best friend Ben and Paige's friend Kaitlin(who i didnt know before today) ended up all sitting in a circle, and Kaitlin began to stroke my shaggy hair , commenting that it was really soft. I put my head in her lap and she kept stroking, and then I looked up at her and she kissed me.
Only then did I remember that on friday, Nick had mentioned a girlfriend by the name of Kaitlin (later confirmed to be the girl who i was making out with .) We made out for a little while, and then she went and seemed quiet and sad for awhile.
Ben (a bit of a lady's man, but also assumed to be heartless) and I then began to talk about girls, and he admitted that he is in love with Paige , but hes afriad that she thinks he's an asshole because he sometimes gets bored with a girl after a week. He then told me to go talk to Kaitlin. I did so, and we ended up making out again. I left the party (no car means i couldnt take her with me.) Kaitlin made me promise not to tell Nick, and she said she was angry with him and they might break up.
I don't think Nick could take that (he's kind of insane and semi-emo/ninja). I'll be seeing Nick again on monday, what do I say to him? What do I do?
Ok heres my problem. So my friend Paige(who i kind of have a crush on ) was throwing this costume party for haloween. My friend Nick was supposed to go, but he got grounded.
I went and was havin fun, and somehow me and Paige and my best friend Ben and Paige's friend Kaitlin(who i didnt know before today) ended up all sitting in a circle, and Kaitlin began to stroke my shaggy hair , commenting that it was really soft. I put my head in her lap and she kept stroking, and then I looked up at her and she kissed me.
Only then did I remember that on friday, Nick had mentioned a girlfriend by the name of Kaitlin (later confirmed to be the girl who i was making out with .) We made out for a little while, and then she went and seemed quiet and sad for awhile.
Ben (a bit of a lady's man, but also assumed to be heartless) and I then began to talk about girls, and he admitted that he is in love with Paige , but hes afriad that she thinks he's an asshole because he sometimes gets bored with a girl after a week. He then told me to go talk to Kaitlin. I did so, and we ended up making out again. I left the party (no car means i couldnt take her with me.) Kaitlin made me promise not to tell Nick, and she said she was angry with him and they might break up.
I don't think Nick could take that (he's kind of insane and semi-emo/ninja). I'll be seeing Nick again on monday, what do I say to him? What do I do?
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Re: I uhhh... need some help
well you could just tell him to ummm.....>_< damn I forgot what i was going to say.
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That's helpful .
I talked to Nick today and it turns out he and Kaitlin were not broken up, and they are still dating . And he knows what happened. I would have expected him to be really pissed off about it , but for some reason he didn't seem to react at all. Paige, on the other hand, poked me in the chest and said she's pissed at me, which is confusing , as while she is friends with Kaitlin, shes not all that close to Nick. Perhaps this is a good sign.
I talked to Nick today and it turns out he and Kaitlin were not broken up, and they are still dating . And he knows what happened. I would have expected him to be really pissed off about it , but for some reason he didn't seem to react at all. Paige, on the other hand, poked me in the chest and said she's pissed at me, which is confusing , as while she is friends with Kaitlin, shes not all that close to Nick. Perhaps this is a good sign.
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yeah i guess.
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Re: I uhhh... need some help (relationships)
I'd typically advise against trusting internet advice regarding such sensitive matters. Then you'll just get mad at someone if their advice makes it worse. It's mostly a judgement call on your part.
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Well I can ussually sense a terrible idea when i see it.
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true.
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Where's the 'bad advice puppy' when you need it?
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Just listen to your heart and see what it tells you.......wait this ain't a Disney cartoon dam.
Seriously though just be honest with them and see how that turns out
Seriously though just be honest with them and see how that turns out
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Re: I uhhh... need some help (relationships)
Lessee, here;
First, Females are People, not Property. Ditto for Males.
So...nobody owns anybody OR their affections unless they earn them. Then you still don't own them, or they; you.
They give themselves to you for as long as they choose to. For life, maybe. For a weekend, more likely.
Second: what happens, happens. There is truth in the saying that you have to kiss a lot of toads to find a princess/prince.
Listen to what people are saying; not what you are hearing them say. This can be difficult; but it's very useful.
And, flirtations happen. Enjoy them and don't get twisted.
First, Females are People, not Property. Ditto for Males.
So...nobody owns anybody OR their affections unless they earn them. Then you still don't own them, or they; you.
They give themselves to you for as long as they choose to. For life, maybe. For a weekend, more likely.
Second: what happens, happens. There is truth in the saying that you have to kiss a lot of toads to find a princess/prince.
Listen to what people are saying; not what you are hearing them say. This can be difficult; but it's very useful.
And, flirtations happen. Enjoy them and don't get twisted.
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